If you want to hurt me, just kill me! Don’t play with my feeling by poisoning my heart with WORDS.
Most of our sorrow is from losing someone dear of unfortunate circumstances; death. Never less we get hurt easily while we didn’t get the recognition of our hard work, that pay rise, promotion that we have been waiting for so long. We are grieving from broken heart and yet, there is something that we couldn’t ever forget but we accept to forgive; the words of a promise.
Whatever I go, a part of me is dying. I can’t take it back nor make it as brand new step again. Every second we breathe is a goodbye to our young life. Yet, we are awake but our eyes are not fully wide open as it should be.
Our world is surrounded of violence, crime and war that most of the time, we are praying strongly that it is not our family or close friends who was stabbed to death in their flat while they were sleeping. We keep worrying as our children leave our home to join a new life in adventures but could be a dangerous final destination. The pain is hard to bare, the scars will be seen and most of the time, we thank Lord that the person didn’t have to see what their life will be if they have survived.
Without any scars of evidence, what is the most painful weapon that could kill us constantly?
We think that knife is the dangerous weapon that will kill our feeling forever. We think that the sword is the right weapon to hurt our true feeling to the one who is about to betray us. We think the gun is going to take our pain in one shot. We think that losing the beauty of our image is the hardest weapon that will take away our self-confidante.
Could I be wrong with my thought about the impact that those weapons can affect our life! But believe it or not, can also leave ugly scars!
Never less, what could hurt us the most in this world out of the weapons?
In everyday life we heard words from different meanings from asking, responding, playing, joking, crying, and laughing. But what will we do when we heard the wows of cursing! The answer to that will be the silence. The silence is the best remedy that we could apply to avoid serious consequences that we may going to regret till the end of our life!
Yes! People can hurt us without any weapon in their hands or what wherever. The key of their strong weapon is a WORD. Yes! A word can destroy our heart. A word can torn us down to darkness. A word can create a serious depression. A word can give us heart attack. A word is a scar of our failure to stand our fight without an evidence of seeing it. Not one could see how people can hurt us with their words unless we are talking about it to our friends, family, partner or anyone who is willing to hear our pain.
The words that are leading to our sorrow of being stabbed straight into our face are various. Those words can be seeing while we have being bullied, assaulting, victimising, discriminating and been mistreated. Unless we have experienced of how some people hated us and not hesitating to say words that will affect our deep feeling, we will not understand how those words are taking away our trust of who we are.
Scandalous or facts?