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Whatever you decide to do as a new resolution, do it with heart not to please public eyes.

Here we go, another year is gone and there isn't anything we can do about that. There is only one thing that we could consider each day, week, month and year that it is passing by and that is the memories. Those memories are the promise that we have made and some of them did happen. Those joys are part of hard work from many rejections. Those pains are from losing someone close from illness or natural disaster. Surely, we can’t ignore all those situations that we have endured but we can learn and develop our knowledge in serving others with care.

Some of vision that we have set each year is a new resolution. We promise to ourselves to going back to the gym to keep our body on good shape or just for the sake to lose weight. We made that promise to stop smoking or minimise the alcohol consumption. We set a goal to put less stress within ourselves. We agreed to treat ourselves with time to meditate and so on.

Yet, most of promises that we have decided to accomplish is not really came from our own desire. Instead we decide to reach a goal because of what we have heard from our neighbour. We make a wish to be a better person because our work colleagues did join fitness community. We become part of an association because our best mate mentioned about it during an afternoon tea gathering.   

With many examples from our past we should believe and focus on what is best for us. We have learnt from our mistake we should be now in a position to make the right decision and this is to do what make us happy before pleasing the public eyes. Understanding the true meaning of what is life all about, we should now be cleared to make a new resolution because that is what we want not because of X or Y did.

It is okay to listen of what those people has to say about their journey. Let us be inspired of the good and bad experience they have had. However, when we are ready to take that new challenge about ourselves, let us take time before making the final decision and be sure of our decision. After all, we want to do something to reach the final line. We do not want to start something and returning back half way simply because we didn’t do it for us.    

Now, whatever we have decided to do as our new resolution, let do it because that is our heart want. Let us make our dream happen because it is the desire of our heart.

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