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Stop culpabilises for something that it totally human to make mistakes.



We do things but some of them, we don’t mean to hurt our own feelings.

It is important to understand that we are human, it’s doesn’t matter how old we are, it doesn’t matter how many times we have been betrayed, it doesn’t matter how many times we had broken heart, it doesn't matter how many time we are experienced; we will keep doing mistakes even if it is not from ourselves but from a second or third party. 

However, we shouldn’t blame ourselves at every wrong doing, after all, that is the only way we can developed ourselves. It is important that we keep open mind to learn new things and do something about it and not just storing it inside of our brain and make it as our next topics on our house party or as our main subject during our first date. We should learn to apply it for us, so that we become a new you, they, us, a new life, a new adventures and a new challenge to breakthrough our weakness. 

Many people struggle to move forward in their life after they have made mistakes that did affect their family, partner, friends and themselves life. In unfortunate events, the results can lead us to permanent depression, for some can lead us to take our own life, some of us can lead us to isolation, we have lost the desire to love, to care but most of all to learn to forgive ourselves.

It is important that we learn to forgive ourselves and talk about our stupidity, our mistakes, and our regrets when we feel like we need to talk. Don’t be ashamed to shares our bad and good experiences because of the fears that our listener is bored to listen our story on and on. We shouldn’t worry because the right person, will listen to us even if we have to repeat our story thousands time, that person will stick around. More we keep our hate within us, more it is going to drag us to darkness. We need to stop blaming ourselves as we are humans, we are somehow created to make mistakes because that is how we can see, understand our ability and how far we can go from where we are.


Scandalous or facts when we are in trouble, our first lesson is to see who are our true friends are when they were told that we need their help, slowly; they seem too busy even to answer our text.

Scandalous or facts our life is about to take a new road…don’t wait too long to make that decision and start to say goodbye to our mistakes.

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