There are many reasons why we have the desire to drink a glass of wine, beer, whisky and so on. The consummation can be over abused unless the person is self-conscious and will know their limits. When we decide to sip that alcohol for it bizarre, dry, sour, smoked, strong test, we just kind letting ourselves gone and forgot that this dangerous liquid can lead us to an embarrassment momentum of our life.
While we are celebrating, yes, let drink for our “Just married couple”. Another celebration that we can’t avoid, and that is while we passed our graduation, yep “Let drink to that achievement”. Let drink for that job offer or promotion that we have been waiting for quiet sometimes now, yes, life is beautiful. At the early age before our adolescent life, we are preparing that night out with our friends. We are excited about it as if it is going to be our first and last clubbing.
Let no just focus on the young adult on their discovery about the alcohol and it symptoms. We shall not forgot that even at our mid-thirty, forty or even at the ages of retiring, we still have some issue to accept the consequences that the alcohol gave to our brain, our body physically and emotionally. What is the cause of such humiliation? The answer to that is very simple, anxiety, fears, lack of self confident, hiding our depression, family issue, bankruptcy and broken heart or loss of loved one.
Somewhere as we look at the main role of chocolate in our life, alcohol can also be seen as our best friends. In contrary to the chocolate, the role of the alcohol is more to take us down to the darkness. Darkness to lead and to lose our beauty, darkness in tempt to take our own life, the appearances we get in consuming it constantly is the presence of the wrinkle as if we didn’t sleep for nights, worse, we can be addicted and not even realising that we are an alcoholic.
However, there is always an option to consume its without abusing , and that is to put and saying to ourselves, let us drink it as a self-treat, let us drink with moderation, let us celebrate in respect that we are the master of our body. Many people tend to think otherwise, they tend to drink and not thinking ahead in aim to get some intention. This is why we do see people make a fool of them. It is hard to say but when this situation happen, I believe that the person him/herself has depression problem, ask for help, deep inside of the person is so dark that she drawn herself in the alcohol to forget. Gone into that strange illusion, we can breathe and have that short of peace, unfortunately, it is just temporary.
Of course, if our leader doesn't explain its system, procedures as it should be, we will just presume what we think it is best for us; and that is to “Yeah” but “Not yeah”.
I do believe that when an adolescent has a question about anything from sex, alcohol, chocolate, work, tax and so on… we shouldn't just say “No! You can’t” or “This is not good for you”. It is important that we provide a clear explanation and give some strong example of the topics so that they have the whole ideas from disadvantage to convenient.
The young adult needs to understand, given the summary without introduction and its positive and negative is not going to help them to take the right decision, lack of that, we have many children end up doing the opposite of what we told them, honestly, I don’t blame them…
Scandalous or facts?